Parents of teens who engage in self-harming behaviors usually had no clue that it was going on. Teens who do self-harm are usually discreet about …
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Parents of teens who engage in self-harming behaviors usually had no clue that it was going on. Teens who do self-harm are usually discreet about …
Parents of teens who engage in self-harming behaviors usually had no clue that it was going on. Teens who do self-harm are usually discreet about these practices, hiding the signs of self-injury under long sleeve shirts and pants. But many parents first become curious that something might be going on when their adolescent refuses to wear attire appropriate for hot weather, instead sticking stubbornly to long sleeves even in sweltering weather. The teen may avoid any event that would involve wearing a swimsuit.
Teenage depression and self harm is on the rise in the nation. Increasing rates of each, along with rising suicide rates, act as a clarion call to parents, teachers, and physicians to help kids struggling with mood disorders or emotional problems. That so many teens are resorting to such dire behaviors to find relief is something that must be taken seriously. In some cases, teenage depression and self harm might reach a state of urgency, necessitating treatment at a residential mental health program designed for teens. These programs can provide the focused therapy that the adolescent needs, to examine the sources of emotional pain, to process a life crisis, and to learn new, healthy coping techniques.
Emotional mood swings are common among adolescents. Everyone remembers how dramatic everything seemed during those years, with peer issues, budding romances, school situations, and family problems sometimes stoking feelings of depression and/or anxiety. This stage of life involves physiological changes due to puberty, with hormonal fluctuations only exacerbating moodiness.
Today’s teens have exposure to the potentially destructive effects of social media; social stigmatizing and peer bullying directly related to increased depression among the youth. Teens suffering from depression may not know how to reach out for help, or may feel that no one cares about their pain. They may take to misguided measures to self-medicated, including seeking risky behaviors, substance abuse, or self-harming.
All of these maladaptive responses to depression will only add to the despair, and the negative consequences will begin to pile up. Teens may engage in self-harming as a way to release the overwhelming emotions they are struggling with, or to gain a sense of control in difficult situations. Self-harm is usually not about seeking attention or trying to commit suicide, but is more about a type of coping skill. These teens who do exhibit self-harming behaviors are, however, at a higher risk of suicide. With teen suicide now the 2nd leading cause of death for youth ages 12-18, there is certainly a need to adequately address the issues behind a teen’s self-harming behaviors.
Treating teenage depression is the first step in stemming the self-harming and self-destructive behaviors. Once the depression is addressed, the thought and behavior patterns involved with self-harm can be treated as well.
There are many different types of self-harming behaviors. At the foundation, self-harming behaviors encompass those behaviors that are self-mutilating or self-injurious to the teen. Some of these might include:
Although a parent’s first knee-jerk reaction to the realization that their child is harming themselves would be shock and horror, it is important to exercise restraint when confronting the teen about the self-harming behavior. A calm, compassionate discussion about the purpose of the behaviors, while also attempting to learn the cause of it is far more productive.
When first learning your teen is struggling with depression and self harming behaviors it is important to have them evaluated by first a medical doctor, and then, if necessary, a psychiatrist. The teen may be place on medication for the depression, but for sure they will be prescribed psychotherapy to try and work through their emotions and psychological issues. Some teens, however, even when being seen on an outpatient basis for depression and related self-injury are not progressing clinically. Their symptoms may not be subsiding and the behaviors are not improving as expected. In these cases, a residential teen mental health center may be the better treatment option.
Residential treatment allows enough time for a thorough assessment of the factors behind the depression and self-harm. The teen may have deep-seated trauma that they have not yet processed. The inpatient program provides a much more focused and comprehensive approach that is tailored specifically for the teen patient and their unique needs.
BNI Treatment Centers is a leading residential mental health treatment program for adolescents aged 12-17 located in Los Angeles, CA. The residential program provides a safe space away from any people, situations, or things that may be triggering self-harming behaviors. While at the BNI Treatment Centers, teens will be guided through various forms of therapeutic activities that can help them identify the source of their emotional pain in a judgment-free zone. An essential aspect of the treatment will focus on treating the depression while teaching teens how better to cope with stress. The therapists work with the teens to devise a plan to better manage conflicts or pain sources, as well as making adjustments in their social relationships if that is the main source of the depression. For more information about the residential program, please contact BNI Treatment Centers today at (888) 522-1504.
Dr. Arastou Aminzadeh or Dr. A as most teens refer to him, has been working in variety of clinical settings for the last 20 years. He is well respected nationally for his expertise in Addiction medicine and treating adolescents. Dr. A is a triple board certified physician in psychiatry, Child and Adolescent psychiatry and Addiction medicine.
Dr. Oliver Ahmadpour is an adult and child psychiatrist with nearly four decades of experience in the field of medicine with an M.D. degree from Sweden, where he practiced as an Internal Medicine physician. In the U.S. he completed his Post-Doctoral Fellowship in Endocrinology at UCSD, and his Residency and Fellowship in Adult, Child, and adolescent Psychiatry at USC Keck School of Medicine.
We treat a wide range of teen mental health challenges including anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, OCD, trauma-related disorders, behavioral issues, ADHD, oppositional defiance, substance use, and dual-diagnosis conditions. Many families come to BNI after struggling to find the right level of care elsewhere.
Most private insurance plans cover a significant portion of treatment. Our admissions team verifies benefits quickly and explains coverage, deductibles, and out-of-pocket expectations before admission. We do not accept Medi-Cal or Medicare.
Yes. Many families come to BNI with teens who have complex diagnoses, treatment-resistant depression, severe anxiety, self-harm history, or previous hospitalizations. Our clinical leadership regularly treats high-acuity cases and provides specialized expertise for them.
Absolutely. We use established, research-backed modalities including CBT, DBT, trauma-informed care, psychiatric medication management, experiential therapies, family systems work, and integrative approaches such as mindfulness, yoga, and expressive arts.
Our residential and outpatient programs are located in private, secure homes in Agoura Hills and Calabasas. These areas are known for their safety, privacy, and access to nature—ideal for focused healing and recovery.
Yes. BNI is trusted by the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine as a training rotation site for physician fellows to learn best practices in adolescent mental health—an acknowledgment of our clinical quality and leadership in teen psychiatry.


